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A few ideas that stuck out to me:

We learn in science class that there is a difference between a “law” and a “theory.” Laws are theories that have been proven over and over again from multiple different angles and have held firm. A classic example that Lewis mentions several times throughout the first book is the Law of Universal Gravitation. I found it interesting that he describes the Law of Human Nature as a law and claims that we have confused it with other laws such as the Law of Universal Gravitation. I wondered throughout this reading whether it would’ve been more appropriate to refer to it as the “Theory of Human Nature?’ He spends a lot of time in this reading making a stance for why the LOHM does exist and should be believed. Substituting “theory” for “law” in almost all instances the LOHM was mentioned helped me better understand what Lewis was trying to say.

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I agree with Lewis’s idea that we all essentially understand the LOHM, but, for whatever reason, choose not to follow it. This, to me, spoke about human integrity. Choosing “good” or “right” isn’t always easy. It likely isn’t easy even a fraction of the time, much less the majority. Many people claim to have integrity, and they certainly do when it comes to others. They would never miss a lunch date or fail to turn in an assignment at work. But, much like the idea that we make concessions and excuses for ourselves, we also lack integrity when it comes to ourselves. We break the promises we make to ourselves — “I’ll start going to the gym next month. Okay, this week, the diet starts for real. I’m going to go back to school this fall and finish my degree.” Over time, this behavior becomes habitual. Failures and broken promises multiply, which then diminishes the trust and confidence we have in ourselves and the validity of our own word with ourselves.

I think this damaged self-image feeds in to some of the interactions Lewis was referring to in Book 3. With our own wounded and mistrusting view of ourselves, we start trying to label the behavior of other humans and determine their intent. Was their offense to you purposeful or accidental? Then, we base our reactions accordingly. Stack on a culture that feeds on distraction through clickbait or ragebait and an economy whose hottest commodity is your time and attention, and you have a vicious feedback loop that makes it extremely challenging to follow the LOHM, even if you want to. It is easy and feels normalized to develop and opinion on every single issue, almost as if you’re wrong if you aren’t mad about something. We are set up to forget that everyone is more alike than different and that most people are not acting out of malice or hatred.

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The herd instinct Lewis mentions in Book 2 was an idea I hadn’t encountered before. This idea interested me because the USA is typically considered an individualistic society (vs a pluralistic one). I think this ties into another common issue we see in today’s world — everyone wants to have a village, but (speaking in broad strokes) nobody wants to be a villager. It feels good to be the helper or the hero in any given situation, but we freeze and shy away when the roles are reversed and it is our turn to seek and accept assistance. This deficiency, I think, plays into the instinctual dilemma Lewis described in this chapter, and a greater willingness to “be a villager” would go a long way to bolster the instincts related to the LOHM.

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Jared Thomas's avatar

It was a great read and I don't have much to add to what you said, Ty. I just love that what he wrote all those years ago is still as relevant today as it was then. But thus is truth...unchanging and forever relevant.

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