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Hi all! We are grateful to join this book club with you. Joel and I listened to the video with Ray before diving into the book, and we were both refreshed by his take and purpose for writing the book, and yet a little cautious and curious. There are a couple reasons for this. One, I think we both have a church background that has influenced (and tainted) the way we perceive the world around us. We are tempted to think more legalistically about this world, “that’s off limits, that’s wrong, that conversation is too ‘light’, “how could we have possibly glorified God in this?”, equating such things to sin, perhaps when they are NOT. Second, a temptation can be self-indulgance, so we would rather set boundaries for ourselves, as to not be tempted to go overboard in certain areas (like SUGAR, haha!)

Something that resonated with us is the tension that he speaks of on pg. 3, living with a both/and mix. We feel this too! We agree, enjoy the DQ ice cream with grandma, but ALSO, don’t miss the opportunity to share the gospel with the employee at the register at DQ!!! There is a clear call in scripture to live with purpose and intentionality, with care and reverence, something we don’t want to miss in our lives. This verse comes to mind:

“Make the most of every opportunity in these evil days. Don’t act thoughtlessly, but understand what the Lord wants you to do.”

‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭5‬:‭16‬-‭17‬ ‭NLT‬‬

We are reading Ecclesiastes as we reflect on this book, to better understand and rightly apply these principles. All in all, we think this book will help us increase our appreciation of every God given gift, and not reduce it to something that doesn’t hold value or significance. Why, it’s His, isn’t it?!

Alyssa Mueller's avatar

This chapter spoke to me about how important it is to be present within our own lives. I feel as though accepting joy dually requires a commitment to presence. I've been focusing recently on disconnecting from my phone/social media, and having the extra attention span available to enjoy my life and surroundings has been very enlightening. I see, hear, and notice so many things I would miss if I was distracted!

Of course, I still find myself occasionally feeling the urge to grab my phone for a photo or video to capture a moment, but the feeling becomes easier to disregard when I weigh my options of enjoying the moment in real time or being removed from the moment so I can try to enjoy repeats of the moment later on. A good comparison might be a fresh meal versus leftovers!

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